Friday 4 January 2013

Day 77: January 4

RANT/TRUE STORY AHEAD
So there's this girl in our group. For this situation, lets call her 'G'. Now we were all bestfriends with G at the beginning of the year. Somewhere around June, or slightly after, she changed. Now I can't exactly pinpoint the change - like what it was or what exactly pissed us off. But she just became annoying, up to the point where we couldn't stand to be around her. Some of us would make excuses to leave. She became skanky and started being really sexual. Now, a couple of weeks after she started this, we had a talk with her. It wasn't the best planned out thing, and we did end up running away before we actually talked to her. As, I said before, not the best way. But we told her. We told her we didn't like the way she was acting (well, not like that, because saying it like that, we sound like teachers), how we didn't feel comfortable. Then she dropped a 'bombshell' on us (and well as many tears). She said she could have something - it ran in her family and she'll tell us after school. Well, we were having our lessons, and she ran down the corridor, sobbing. We went with her and she told us - she has OCD. Now this OCD runs in her family and because her brother has it really bad, it must mean she has it really bad, right? So she pretty much blamed all her behaviour on her OCD. Truthfully, most of us were skeptical as to whether she did actually have OCD. She had never shown signs of any compulsions or a disorder. Of course, it didn't have to be a physical disorder or compulsion, but still. Surely, someone, especially her very observant friend since she was born, might have seen something. The next few weeks went past, us feeling guilty about being rude to her. But it got to a point where anger, annoyance and indifference took over. She never once mentioned anything about her OCD again, except to one of the people, to say that she had gone to therapy. That's it. Nothing else. Zero. Zip. Nada. Once again, she started to annoy us. She just became this annoying bitch who none of us liked. Now, on New Years, we had a party and didn't invite her and one other member of our group. Lets call this person 'H'. Now H is best friends with G. They're always attached to each other and we call them a 'package deal'. Like if we tell one of them something, the other person will know. It's like they're brother and sister. We like H, but we thought if we invited H, G would know. Now, G found out about our party and got really pissed. She sent rude texts to two of the people in the group, saying that 'no good deed goes unpunished' and that 'friends of three years don't make each other cry' or something. Firstly, no. Secondly, you can't just blame them two, we all planned this party. We didn't invite her because we didn't want shit and annoyance at our party. Thirdly, (and this is what pisses me/us off the most) is that she didn't even try to change. She just blamed everything on her OCD. She's all like 'guys, it's not me, it's my OCD." And for all we know, it could be true. BUT, we are not mind readers, we can't tell what she's thinking. So if she is affected by this OCD, then she must tell us. Mind you, her mom didn't believe her and her dad told her she has to go to therapy before she jumps into any conclusions. So now she's really pissed at us and told us that 'she doesn't know if she wants to be friends anymore' and she's really 'upset'. You know what, I really don't care. I liked the old her, and I know friends are supposed to accept you as you are, but if I hadn't met her at the beginning of the year and I met her now, I definitely wouldn't want to be friends with her.

Good, got that all of my system. Now I feel like a light fluffy list to write.

Seventy-seven things that make noise:
1. The Air Conditioning
2. Birds in the morning (and the rest of the day, but mostly in the morning, just because you're trying to sleep)
3. The microwave
4. Keyboards
5. Typewriters
6. The coffee machine
7. The heater
8. Dogs
9. Guinea Pigs
10. The wind
11. The Chicken Timer (it's really just an egg timer in a chicken shape)
12. Texts
13. Glass shattering
14. Spoons clattering
15. Bees
16. Radio
17. Walking
18. Breathing
19. Running
20. Notifications
21. Cars
22. The kettle
23. The toaster
24. Facebook Chat
25. Tail wagging(s)
26. Swallowing (like hot chocolate/coffee etc)
27. The blender
28. The gas flame
29. The piano
30. Dialouge in movies
31. A photocopier
32. The laptop
33. Soundtrack from movies
34. Conversations
35. The dishwasher being emptied
36. Grinding the salt&pepper
37. The shower
38. The bath
39. Fangirls
40. The sea
41. Pages turning
42. Chairs being scraped
43. Nails being bitten
44. Kisses
45. Moaning
46. Hitting
47. Drumming nails against a surface
48. Skype
49. Ticking
50. Metronome
51. Dialling tone
52. Ringtone
53. Mewing
54. Fryer
55. The oven
56. Water running
57. The freezer
58. Cooking Popcorn
59. Opening a Cold-Drink
60. Scooters
61. Bicycles
62. Ice-skating
63. Rollerblading
64. Pens being scribbled with
65. Colouring in with textas/kokis
66. Whipping Cream
67. Camera 'shutter'
68. Clapping
69. Clicking
70. The Cup Song
71. A vortex
72. Cracking your knuckles
73. A baby sloth (omg, you have to watch the video).
74. Neck Cracking
75. A fan (both kinds >.<)
76. Doing an oral
77. An electric toothbrush.


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